ORAL SEX = TICKET TO HELL!
As all of you know, Trevor and I run a very successful youth Christian awareness group. We meet with our 47 member group team, three times a week on Wednesday, Friday and of course Sunday. In addition to these meetings we also make special “house trip” calls to members in distress.
This past Thursday we had one of these visits.
Tricia Blackwell is a 17 year old group member. She is a quiet girl and she is a very talented painter. But she has been dating a non-Christian boy from West Lake High and recently his “non-Christianess” got the best of him, and he forced her to engage in a very violent sexual act. The police were called by a friend of Tricia’s after she showed up at their home crying and bleeding from the face.
We were contacted by her parents after they got home from the hospital and were asked to pay her a visit to help with the recovery process. She is very shaken up over this event. Police do have Travis in custody and because he is 19 he will be in jail for awhile.
We showed up at Tricia’s house around 6:45 Thursday night. The Blackwell’s were going to go out Christmas shopping, so we would have some one-on-one time with Tricia.
Trevor asked her the most important question right out of the gate, as he is very honest and quite open about these things.
“What did you do to provoke this?” asked Trevor.
Tricia did not answer right away, I think she was taken back by our bluntness. But we are Christian youth counselor members and we have a right to ask the tough questions, especially of our youth team group members.
She said that her and Travis had gone out driving around to look a Christmas light displays in their neighborhood. They drove around for awhile and then parked and began to make-out? Kissing is allowed as long as the group youth members are 13 years old or older and have no history of mouth sores or gum disease issues. Kissing non-Christians though is not allowed and Tricia knew she was breaking our youth team pact.
Pact #67- “no kissing, hand holding or communicating flirtatiously with non-Christians”.
We have over 260 pacts, which each member must abide by at all times. Failure to do so will result in banishment from youth team fun trips or worse.
Tricia said that Travis was getting aggressive and kept asking to see her with her top off. She said she let him (which is another broken pact agreement, pact #113) but he did not stop there. She said he forced her hand onto his private sexual part and violently forced her to put pressure on it. Then came the big one. He told her that he loved her, and told her that they were old enough to engage in oral sex play (pact #23).
She resisted at first, but she said he was holding her hands and would not let her free. She said he slipped his jeans down and forced her head and face onto his sexual part. He made her open her mouth and accept his sexual part. She said she gagged and cried but he just kept holding her there until he had finished up.
Trevor and I were disgusted and appalled by what we had just heard. It was 6:53pm and we had heard enough.
This, we told her, is what non-Christians do every day and why we warn our youth kids about speaking with or looking at, non-Christians. She asked if God would forgive her for making these mistakes and what she could do to repent.
Here is where things got real difficult.
God is very clear about oral sex…
(1 Th 4:3-7 NIV) “It is God’s will that you should be sanctified: that you should avoid sexual immorality;The Lord will punish men and women for all such sins, as we have already told you and warned you.”
At 6:56pm we let Tricia know that she had committed a very serious sin not to mention she broke like 5 of our youth team Christian member group pacts. Even though she did not do so willingly, she was not married at the time nor did she stop the act from going forward. Just like when God gives a mother the strength to lift a car off her child who was just violently run over. So to does he give the strength to women to avoid rape. But they must initiate the resisting and then God will grant them temporary ultra-strength powers to stop the violator.
Tricia did none of these things and so she will be going to Hell. We also removed her from our youth Christian awareness team group and notified our Church pastor that the Blackwell family had been darkened by this event that Tricia was involved in and that their Church member status should be reviewed.
Please, if you are NOT married and you get involved in a sexual situation that is avoidable and you do nothing to stop it, you are committing a grave sin against our Lord. Oral Sex = Ticket to Hell, now swallow that one down!
Timothy.
18 Responses to “ORAL SEX = TICKET TO HELL!”
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wish there was a hell u would go
Alow me to introduce myself. I am a former Law Enforcement Officer and have a BS degree in Compartive Religion. I am currently working in Corrections as a supervisor in a maximum level prison in Missouri. I am also the product of about 10 generations of Pastors, Rev. and Preachers dating back before the Mayflower Compact, so when I say what I am about to say you may wish to listen.
A person who is raped, in any form whatsoever, is not a sinner. They are a victim.
I don’t know what insanity you people are teaching in your church, however, what you have described, that happened to that poor seventeen year old girl, is a violent rape act that she in no way responsible for, nor is she guilty of commiting any sin whatsoever for that act.
Your reactions to her tramatic event is borderline abuse and systematically destructive to her mentally and emotionally. In my opinion she should, and her family, drop your church like a hot rock and report your behavior to the Cult Awareness Network and whatever local Prosecutors that exist in the area your church is in.
You are slime and of I have anything to do with it I will make sure everyone knows what kind of sick, sadistic, cruel, religious nutcases that you are and the bile that you teach.
YOU ARE WARNED
You guys are hilarious.
Leave that poor girl alone!
She was at no fault at all, and this just shows the typical christian fascism that has been springing up all over the place. Kicking someone out of a building for being forced into something against her will? Now that’s cold. So unlike your christ.
I’m an atheist, but even I know the story about jesus forgiving the prostitute that anointed his feet.
Where is your charity? Buried beneath fanaticism most likely.
Absolutely disgusting.
Good god, this is so bordering on insanity that I personally can’t tell if this is all one big joke or not. I hope its a joke, because I hate to think that there are people like you in the world. This girl was raped, and you blame it on her. You are both sick, twisted individuals who are so far away from what the Jesus said to be a loving Christian.
I’m an atheist, and I have respect for nearly all peoples beliefs, but you are completely different. Its people like you that make religion a perpetually violent concept.
Let me mention one more thing, IF by some insane miracle you two are right about everything, and God is exactly as you imagine him to be, I would rather burn in hell than spend the rest of eternity in heaven with you two.
Pitiful excuses for human beings, you are.
This whole website is comedy gold. Sick, demented, messed up, and very non Christian. But still comedy gold.
OMG! You guys are hilarious! Love your mock videos and comments…keep writing and you will go far! By the way, LOVED Religulous! Thanks for the heads up on the movie…exactly the kind of documentaries I dig….
Your reference to Thessalonians seems to lack any mention of oral sex.
Where do you get these crazy ideas?
Or am I just stupid, and this whole site is a joke.
Okay, so now I gotcha that you are full of jokes and mockery. That’s cool. As a part-time agnostic and part-time atheist, former UCC Christian, I can appreicate all that. I loved Religulous and especially the WBC piece. What is not cool is even mockery about resonses to rape. I study sexual violence and while I believe you have good intentions here, I strongly disapprove of this particular piece about rape in the form of forced oral sex. My main reason is because people don’t realize you are joking and some ignorant people out there aren’t going to get your message, therefore in my opinion this is perpetuating violence against women. Please remove it immediately.
god love all his creations and is very forgiving. if there is a hell cold hearted, people like you are the ones who end up there. people that preach these types of insanities. people makes mistakes its human. god will forgive if you ask for forgivness. your probaly some hick cult down in the middle of no where sheltered from the rest of the world. its time for a reality check.
I really dig your work. I watched your Boycott Religulous video on youtube and was blown away. It took up until the cloning Jesus, and the defense of Santa Claus to realize what you guys were doing but that just made it make sense. It was hilarious non stop. I almost wish some of these people would get a clue so you guys could get the credit you deserve.
Andrew
PS I really enjoyed the ensemble the guy on the left wore (vest, sunglasses, off centered hat)
LMAO that was hillarious.
PS: THEY ARE KIDDING, THIS IS A JOKE SITE YOU MORONS! Of Course the bible condones oral-sex, I mean why else would all the priests and nuns be doing it with all the children, sheesh!
Very nice blog. I totally agree with your thoughts.
after reading that i am honestly speechless.
what is wrong with you?
your saying its her fault she was raped, and now shes going to hell, even though she asked for forgiveness?
omg. you will get a nasty surprise when you go straight to hell, but i think that will not even be enough payback that that poor girl deserves.
Wait a minute, something like this happened to me but I managed to fight the guy off. So that means that I’m ok, right? He didn’t get inside me so I’m not going to hell. I assume. I don’t know. I got away, so it doesn’t count, right?
Give me a break! The victim is NOT at fault. Christianity condones this too.
For the love of god tell me this is a joke. It’s gotta be a joke.
If it’s a joke, I applaud you, because I read something similar in a real-life youth group book and was outraged.
If it’s not a joke, please get hit by a truck.
Ok yes she was wrong on doing everything that she wasnt supposed to and i thought i was reading something correct that u guys were saying but i WASNT!!! SHE IS NOT GOiNG TO HeLL!! God is a God of forgiveness amd love. He understands we(even the person who wrote this) make huge mistakes but his mercy is amazing in forgiving! If she repents and keeps living a unsinful life she can still have the salvation God gave evryone! SHE ISnOT GOING TO HELL FOR SURe bEcAUSE OF OnNE SIN!!!!
How sad Be sure to tell her that she must marry her rapist as it is in the bible.